It’s easy to think you know an actor from the characters they play. But when the role involves a prosthetic penis and a love scene with Daniel Craig, the line between performance and reality gets blurry. Drew Starkey, best known as the volatile Rafe Cameron on Netflix’s Outer Banks, has been attracting a different kind of attention lately—questions about his personal life, his relationships, and whether what you see on screen is actually him. At 30, the Hickory, North Carolina native has a filmography that spans from Love, Simon to Luca Guadagnino’s Queer, and with that comes a swirl of curiosity. This guide separates the confirmed facts from the speculation, so you can understand the actor behind the headlines.
Age: 30 (born November 4, 1993) ·
Height: 6’1″ (1.85 m) ·
Known for: Rafe Cameron in Outer Banks ·
Instagram followers: 5 million+ ·
First major role: Love, Simon (2018)
Quick snapshot
- Current relationship status — no confirmed partner (ELLE)
- Whether he is dating Odessa A’zion — unconfirmed rumor (ELLE)
- Smoking habits — no evidence (Capital FM)
- 2025: Starred in Queer opposite Daniel Craig (W Magazine)
- 2020: Began playing Rafe Cameron on Outer Banks (Wikipedia)
- Upcoming projects beyond Queer not yet announced
- Continues as Rafe Cameron on Outer Banks (future seasons)
Six key facts about Drew Starkey, pulled from reliable sources:
| Label | Value |
|---|---|
| Full name | Drew Starkey |
| Date of birth | November 4, 1993 |
| Age | 30 (as of 2024) |
| Height | 6’1″ (1.85 m) |
| Occupation | Actor |
| Known for | Rafe Cameron on Netflix’s Outer Banks |
Who is Drew Starkey in a relationship with?
Is Drew Starkey dating Odessa A’zion?
- Rumors have linked Starkey to actress Odessa A’zion, but neither party has confirmed the relationship. According to ELLE (women’s lifestyle magazine), Starkey prefers to keep his personal life private and has not publicly addressed any dating speculation.
- No photographs or joint public appearances have provided concrete evidence of a romantic connection.
Does Drew Starkey have a wife or girlfriend?
- As of 2025, Starkey is not married and has no publicly confirmed girlfriend. In an interview with ELLE, he described himself as “a very quiet person” and said that communication is something he “had to learn the hard way” in relationships — but he did not mention a current partner.
- No marriage records or wedding announcements exist in public databases.
Starkey’s relationship status remains unconfirmed. Fans should treat any rumors as speculation until Starkey or a reliable source confirms otherwise.
Does Drew Starkey wear a prosthetic?
Is Drew Starkey wearing a prosthetic in ‘Queer’?
- Yes. Starkey confirmed in an interview with Gay Times (LGBTQ+ media outlet) that he wore a prosthetic for his nude scenes in Luca Guadagnino’s film Queer. He stated, “I wore a prosthetic over my private parts for the scenes.”
- Co-star Daniel Craig reportedly also wore a prosthetic, according to IMDb News (film industry news).
Is that really him in ‘Queer’?
- The body shown on screen is Starkey’s — the prosthetic is an overlay, not a replacement of his actual physique.
The prosthetic conversation highlights how often audiences conflate an actor’s performance with their real body. Starkey’s openness about the prop helps set the record straight: what you see is a deliberate theatrical choice, not a revealing glimpse of his private life.
How old is Drew Starkey?
How old is Drew Starkey?
- Born November 4, 1993, in Hickory, North Carolina (Wikipedia (encyclopedia)).
- As of 2025, he is 31 years old.
What is Drew Starkey’s height?
- Listed at 6’1″ (1.85 m) on multiple sources, including Wikipedia and Capital FM (radio station).
What movies and TV shows has Drew Starkey been in?
Drew Starkey Outer Banks role
- Since 2020, Starkey has played Rafe Cameron, the troubled son of Ward Cameron, on Netflix’s hit series Outer Banks (Wikipedia).
- Rafe is a fan-favorite antagonist, known for his volatile behavior and dramatic storylines.
Other notable films and television appearances
- Love, Simon (2018) — his first major film role (IMDb (film database)).
- The Hate U Give (2018) — played a supporting role.
- Scream: The TV Series (2019) — appeared in one episode.
- Queer (2025) — starred as Eugene Allerton opposite Daniel Craig, directed by Luca Guadagnino (W Magazine (fashion and culture)).
- Full filmography is available on Wikipedia and IMDb.
Does Drew Starkey have a baby or is he a smoker?
Is Drew Starkey a parent?
- No evidence of a baby or child exists in any public record or interview. Starkey has not mentioned fatherhood in any published conversation (ELLE, Esquire).
Does Drew Starkey smoke?
- No confirmed information about smoking habits. In candid photos and interviews, Starkey is not seen smoking. Capital FM notes that “there is no evidence that he smokes.”
The lack of personal information is a deliberate choice by Starkey, who told ELLE he values his privacy. Fans seeking a window into his private life will have to settle for what he shares on screen.
Three categories, one takeaway: the confirmed facts are few, the rumors many, and the reliable sources are the ones with editorial standards.
| Category | Confirmed | Unconfirmed |
|---|---|---|
| Relationship | None publicly confirmed | Odessa A’zion rumor |
| Prosthetic in Queer | Confirmed by Starkey | — |
| Smoking habit | No evidence | Rumors not substantiated |
| Children | None | — |
| Height | 6’1″ (multiple sources) | — |
What’s confirmed and what’s unclear
Confirmed facts
- Born November 4, 1993.
- Height 6’1″.
- Played Rafe Cameron in Outer Banks.
- Wore a prosthetic for Queer.
- Starred in Love, Simon (2018) and The Hate U Give (2018).
What’s unclear
- Current relationship status.
- Whether he is dating Odessa A’zion.
- Smoking habits.
- Whether he has a child.
- Future projects beyond Queer.
Quotes from the actor and critics
“I wore a prosthetic over my private parts for the scenes.”
— Drew Starkey, speaking to Gay Times
“I’m generally a very quiet person. Communication is something I had to learn the hard way in relationships.”
— Drew Starkey, in an interview with ELLE
“The emotional core of the characters’ connection is longing.”
— Esquire (men’s lifestyle magazine) on the film Queer
For fans trying to separate the actor from the character, the key is to trust the confirmed sources: Starkey’s own words in interviews, his filmography, and the biographical data. The rest is speculation. The implication is clear: if you’re curious about Starkey’s personal life, you’ll have to wait for him to share it — or accept that some questions may never get a definitive answer.
Related reading: Drew Starkey reveals whether he wore a prosthetic for his nude scenes in Queer · Drew Starkey on Queer, Privacy and Working with Daniel Craig
Frequently asked questions
Is Drew Starkey married?
No, he is not married. No marriage records or announcements exist.
Does Drew Starkey have a girlfriend?
As of 2025, he has not publicly confirmed a girlfriend. Rumors about Odessa A’zion are unverified.
How tall is Drew Starkey?
He is 6’1″ (1.85 m), according to Wikipedia and other sources.
What is Drew Starkey’s age?
He was born November 4, 1993, making him 31 as of 2025.
What movies has Drew Starkey been in?
His notable films include Love, Simon (2018), The Hate U Give (2018), and Queer (2025).
Is Drew Starkey really wearing a prosthetic in ‘Queer’?
Yes, he confirmed in a Gay Times interview that he wore a prosthetic for his nude scenes.
Who does Drew Starkey play in Outer Banks?
He plays Rafe Cameron, the troubled son of Ward Cameron.
Is Drew Starkey a smoker?
There is no confirmed evidence that he smokes.
Oliver Jack Carter Cooper is a staff writer for EveningLedger.uk, covering UK news, politics, business and culture. He works under Editor-in-Chief Edward Langley and Managing Editor Charlotte Reeves, following the newsroom standards for sourcing, verification and fact-checking set out in our editorial policies.